BB, you are feeling better now as you read this, I hope?! Hope the Monday blues in you has been washed away with now that it's mid week already. Hope that you aren't feeling vexed over the amount lost, it will be earned back de =). No matter what, just don't feel too down. You still have me! =) I know it might be thick-skinned of me to say that, but I will go through whatever thick and thin with you. No matter what lies ahead, we will overcome it together, so like what you say, you never walk alone applies here =)

Anyway, all I wanna say or to you as repeating yet again is, I am in this with you, I will walk out of it with you. No matter what, our parents brought us up this far and tedious, it's high time we do our part to them if it's within our means lor. After which, it's up to them to make changes for the better. =)

Thanks for staying over with me last weekend though I know you had 'suffered' and might not have been too eager or willing to. You might not be too into saying out sweet nothings to me like I always say to you, but I think that's your quiet way of showing you *heart* me. Your actions shows =) I love you Darling!

I can't wait for November 11 to come cuz I want to celebrate your birthday with you! We can then have the whole of few days to ourselves. It might just be in Sg, but well, so long as it's with you, it's enough =)

I read this from my email and thought I should put it down here for you to read too. It's about 10 things women should know about Men.

1. Men have needs just like you do. Women are often considered the needier sex, but guys are have their emotional needs, too, according to Huemer and Winas. They may not readily admit it, but "men need respect, praise, interest in what they do, support, encouragement, collaboration, understanding, love, time alone, etc., etc."
Yes I know you do feel moody like me at times.

2. Men need respect. Find a woman who disrepects her guy, and you'll find a man who's halfway out the door. "A man is going to find respect somewhere," say Huemer and Winas. "If she doesn't give it to him, then he is going to find it someplace else."
I have passed on this area, right?? =P

3. Men need praise. What's the best way to get a man to please you, whether around the house or in bed? Give his self-esteem a boost. "Men constantly need to be reminded about how great they are," say Huemer and Winas. "If you ask him to do the dishes and he doesn't do them perfectly then appreciate the fact that he actually did them, even if it is not to your exact specifications. Nagging him about how inefficient he is and how you would have done a much better job is not in your best interest."
I do praise you outright. Ya I do nag (I admit! Haa) but I never nag on how lousy you are, did I?? I hope not~

4. Men need you to be interested in what they do. Men want to be around women who care about what they love (his job, his hobby, whatever). "You don't have to live and breathe his interests," say Huemer and Winas, "but you should understand them enough to comment." For instance, ask about his day at the office when he gets home, show your excitement for his achievements at work. If he's had a stressful day, hear him out -- you don't even have to give advice. Most of the time, he just needs a listening ear.
BB, I pass for this or not?? =P I wish to hear a "Yes!"

5. Men need support and encouragement. "If you support him, he will support you," say Huemer and Winas. When he asks you do help, do the things you can to support him. "If you encourage him with his goals and dreams, he will be a better man for it."
Same for this I hope.

6. Men need collaboration. In other words, men don't want to be told what to do or how to do it. "The best thing that you can do is manipulate him into thinking that he came up with the idea," say Huemer and Winas. He likes a relationship where you work together as a team, not a relationship where you're wearing the pants.
I don't wear the pants in our relationship hor?? I think we are both quite ok so far, we do make decisions together and separately ba.

7. Men need understanding. Men may seem to be from Mars sometimes, but they really want to be understood. "When he takes the time to actually talk to you, don't blow it off or ignore it, just listen," say Huemer and Winas. Great communication between couples is key to connecting on a deeper, stronger level.
I can say our communication is quite good already! You agree?

8. Men need love (and yes, that does include sex). We all know sex is important to a man, but "love is not just sex," say Huemer and Winas. "Love is a look, a touch, a kiss, and stroking his ego." When you are attentive to his needs, he will be more willing to pay attention to yours.
Yes yes I know that's why seldom or never say "No" to you. Right my charming horsey?? =P

9. Men need time alone. He needs a chance to explore a hoby, hang with the guys and unwind. "Allow and encourage him to do what he does to recharge" suggest Huemer and Winas. "If you do this, the time you spend with him will be even better." Of course, if time alone includes an addiction to porn, fantasy football and video games, you may want to reconsider your choice of man.
And so you have now. I wish you will say at least I'm more flexi now than before, having to stick to meeting you 2 weekdays a week. Unless we have dinners or whatsoever, I'm quite ok with just meeting you once a weekday now, or at times none.

10. Men need your attention. You may think they're not very observant, but men pay attention to how their women address their needs, because as mentioned in the first point: Men are needy.
Have I met your expection of paying attention to you?? =P

written @11:39 AM